We all walk through this life. Some of us struggle more than others. Some people have more possessions, education, abilities, talents—but we are all the same. Inside of our hearts that beat blood through our bodies we all possess potential and are worth the value of a human life. You are just as good as any one else and no one can ever claim to be better than another. (Well, they can claim it...but it is unsubstantiated.)
Don't let anyone ever put themselves over you. Insecure people will try to get their security by putting others down and making fun of others. This is a cheap way to feel good about yourself. It is also futile. In fact, it works in reverse. Do people ever really 'feel' better about themselves after putting another person down or making fun of them? No. I say not. If someone puts you down, it is important to remember that their insults are about them and them alone. They have nothing to do with you and you should not accept them. Place a shield around yourself and do not let hurtful comments in because they are entirely and 100% not about you.
Also, don't let yourself be pulled into a group of others that get their kicks from putting others down. It is not a true friendship and will turn on you the minute you leave the room. Besides, it is low and unenlightened.
Whenever I am around people who intimidate me, I try all the harder to bring a calm reality to the situation. I act just as if I would if I were with my closest friends. I smile and realize that these folks are just like me and there is no reason for me to be afraid. I remain professional when I have to be, but I keep in my mind that there is no need to fear. I know my abilities and talents will carry me and I need not fear that I am not enough. I have confidence in myself.
Remember, if you are in a situation today that brings on fear or intimidation, smile at those around and let them know that you know we are all the same inside. It will probably put them at ease as well.
Take Good Care Today.
Good advice.
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